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'The Garden'

A "memoir" ...

As I wrote in an earlier Patch blog, I did my “roots” thing a few summers ago when I came back to my hometown, which known to you all as Bayside. When I grew up there, it was still considered a small-ish town. It even had a few old potato fields.

Bayside was where I played punch ball and hide and seek with friends on our dead end street, rode my bike to Bell Boulevard to buy mom a quart of milk, took dance lessons, twirling lessons and art lessons. Bayside is where my mom led my Girl Scout troop and where I sang in the choir and learned to square dance at Redeemer Lutheran Church fund raisers.

I went to PS 41, and then Marie Curie Junior High where I couldn’t wait to graduate and go to Bayside High. 

I lived in a pretty two story brick house nestled on a tree-lined street with a large side yard where I’d play Huck Finn and “Injun Joe” with the boy next door. I was always Huck Finn. And in the spring, the gray of winter would disappear and, magically, the gardens of each lovely two-story home in my neighborhood burst with vivid colors of blossoming hydrangeas, tulips, irises and daffodils. It was a “Leave It To Beaver” small town way of life.

But I knew at age five I was going to be a city girl one day because it was at that age my parents first took me to Manhattan’s “magical” garden - Madison Square Garden. I remember being terrified as we made our way down the steep steps to our seats high up in the blue section. The height was dizzying and the energy in the air overpowering and I was sure I was going to plunge to my death. But my father saved me from that terrible fate when he took my arm and guided me to my seat.

Suddenly the lights went out and terror gripped me once again. In the darkness a booming voice announced, “Ladies and Gentlemen and children of all ages, welcome to the greatest show on earth.”

The lights flashed back on and music blared as elephants and horses charged into the arena, led by the most colorful, sparkling, beautiful people I had ever seen. I was no longer afraid, for I knew, at that moment, that this was a magical building.

That magic took on a new meaning when, as a Bayside High cheerleader, I cheered for my team in the race for the city basketball championship. Thousands of students, teachers and parents filled the seats for that first play-off game. And there I was, in the middle of the floor of Madison Square Garden, not lying dead in the center ring as I had envisioned on my first visit, but kicking and cartwheeling myself into a frenzy.

The score was 55-55. With only a second to go, my boyfriend took the pass, glided into the air and let loose a long hook shot. The buzzer sounded and everyone held their breath as the ball hit the backboard, then circled the rim. Around and around it went, but I knew it was going to go in. This was my magical building. The moment was intoxicating.

I didn’t get to feel that rush again until a few years later when a friend invited me to see the Knicks live for the first time. When I entered the Garden, I once more felt that intense surge of energy, giving me a thrill I’ve felt nowhere else on earth. As the Knicks played, the crowd’s cheers and groans were deafening.

Soon after, I discovered the Rangers. Hockey drew a different crowd from basketball - more dark suits and club ties - but the energy was the same.

Whether basketball or hockey, Connecticut commuters, gamblers, Wall Street manipulators, society ladies or homeboys all lifted their voices in joy and agony in the Garden. Their cries bouncing off the walls like a million Spauldings. Cheers at the old Shea or Giants Stadium can’t compete with the reverberating sound of rabid fans in the Garden. It really is a magical building.

Back in Bayside after so many years - my hometown no longer had potato fields, and the local movie theater where I spent every Saturday watching cartoons, westerns and Audrey Hepburn movies, eating Dots and buttered pop corn is now a multi-plex. My favorite mom and pop pizza place has been replaced by Pizza Hut or Dominos or both. White Castle now has to compete with Burger King, McDonald’s and Wendy’s and most of the small family businesses in town have closed, no longer able to compete with the shopping malls. But nothing negated my happy memories.

This growth is happening all over America, but it won’t change who we are if we remember to water and nurture our children with their own joyous memories of gardens of cotton candy, clowns and basketball and we allow them to find their own magical “garden.”

And for disbelievers who say 'the Garden' is not the building, it’s the people in it, here’s one last tale. It was my first political convention as a press liaison. It was held in the Garden, and before the delegates were to arrive, I needed to check out the podium teleprompter. I left my office in the building’s bowels and walked into the arena. No one was there - not a workman, not a convention organizer, not a single secret service agent.

I stood on the spot where Jimmy Carter would soon accept his party’s nomination for president and as I looked around the expansive room, the air filled with exhilarating electricity. Suddenly I realized I wasn’t alone after all. The walls were alive. Bill Bradley and Rod Gilbert were there, Emmett Kelly was there and so was a Bayside High School cheerleader ready to spark her team on with new energy. We were all there, happy ghosts in the walls of the Garden.

Irene DeBlasio January 5, 2013 at 06:11 pm
@IlonaSaari Another beautifully written memory. I identify with your childhood memories since they mirror mine in so many ways. Luckily my neighborhood was able to rescue our movie theater and it still stands. Pelham Picture House is still a single-screen house and my hometown looks pretty much the same as it did when I was growning up there.
As for the circus, I am still living with post-traumatic stress having visited Madison Square Garden a few years earlier than you. I buried my face into my father's coat the entire time. The Garden still makes me apprehensive and I try to avoid it. As someone once remarked about lunch at Chuck E Cheese -- I'd rather go back to Viet Nam. As for sports, I love stadiums and outdoor games the most -- football and baseball. You are a great writer and friend. We were separated at birth about most Noo Yawk stories -- dining at Elaine's, Joe Allen's, etc. -- not so much The Garden, the circus and Mr. Jimmy.
Ilona Saari January 5, 2013 at 06:27 pm
Thanks, Irene, for the compliment - I even had Joe Allen's in my book (great spinach salad and great burgers). ;o) - Almost picked Pelham for "Freeze Frame's ending - but Larchmont won out. ;o)
Ilona Saari January 5, 2013 at 06:28 pm
Joe Allen's also makes a terrific martini. ;o)
Irene DeBlasio January 5, 2013 at 08:50 pm
@IlonaSaari Joe Allen's -- I know, I know, the burgers especially -- Herb Sargent, Gloria Steinem, Clay Felker, the New York Magazine group, the whole nine yards. I was born in Pelham Manor (at home) and went all the way through Pelham High. Our family joined Larchmont Shore Club when I was five and that's where we spent the bulk of our summer days. On Sundays we went to Mass at Blessed Sacrament Church in New Rochelle, walked across the street to a diner and had waffles with scrambled eggs for breakfast, then we'd ride to the beach club. We had dinner there on the patio at the club. The best part was when Ezio Pinza, his young wife and child came to spend the summers in the hotel portion of the club house. We were treated to many a song from "South Pacific" in the changing rooms. Thrilling.
Ilona Saari January 5, 2013 at 09:14 pm
Sounds wonderful, Irene. You should write a memory piece for the New Rochelle/Larchmont Patch...
Ilona Saari January 5, 2013 at 09:15 pm
... it just might be the New Rochelle Patch... I wrote a piece for the Larchmont Patch when my book came out.
Richard Camp January 5, 2013 at 10:38 pm
Wonderful piece... I didn't know you for the earlier part, but being able to attend to convention with Ilona was one of the highlights of days gone by for me... and Irene... Ezio Pinza serenading! You definitely have to "memoir" that one! :)
Maris Clement January 6, 2013 at 11:09 pm
Really loved it, you "got it" when you described the electricity the walls and air held with or without the people cheering.
I also feel very relieved that you joined me in that starruing role, out of 500 girl at our summer camp, they had their eye on me for Huck Finn, for the play. I so wanted to be Becky , but even at 10 I did not have that shy, retiring girlie thang going on. Did you also have to sing "Smoking's a pleasure my best friend's my pipe, I puff with contentment if the corncob is right"? Or were you doing improv as I did in Okalahoma where I also played Curly. Ah the humiliation, never a Becky, never a Laurie.
MickMil January 7, 2013 at 05:47 pm
Beautiful, poignant piece. Nice job! Brought back many childhood memories---especially of the scary feeling of sitting high above the circus ring and the roar of the crowd.
Ilona Saari January 7, 2013 at 06:36 pm
So happy you guys enjoyed the piece -- Never sang as Huck Finn since it was an all made-up game I played w/ the boy next door and neighborhood kids - I, of course, "wrote" the scenario... Never wanted to be Becky - I was 'girlie' looking, but was a very confirmed tomboy... ;o)

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