Virgo and Gemini

Dear Yael,

I was born on August 27, 1995 at 10:27 a.m. in NYC. My girlfriend was born on June 5, 1997.  I would like to know if we are a good match.  Is she the most loyal sign for me?  I know I am young, but I would like to also know about my future with her.  How does a Virgo male match up with a Gemini female in general?

David

Dear David,

Normally I try not to influence the younger generation in making tough decisions based on astrology.  However, in your case I think it may help you understand your nature more - as a Virgo male - and perhaps this will contribute to you making healthier decisions for yourself in the future.

Virgo men are observant, reliable, helpful, analytical and skeptical.  In matters of the heart, they have a cool exterior with a very soft interior.  Virgos love women and usually have tremendous amount of respect for them.  They are reserved with their emotions, so they need patient and understanding women by their side. Virgos need their privacy and can't handle women who invade their space. 

For the long-term, they are usually attracted to logical, classy and conventional women.  They may not be the knight in shining armor type, but they make great friends and partners.  They have tender hearts and need women who support them emotionally as well as give them adequate amount of space and time for themselves.  Virgos are perfect for down-to-earth and conventional women who are driven to create stability in their lives. 

Virgos are traditionally best matched with Taurus,Virgo, Capricorn,  Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.  This does not mean that you can't have a perfectly beautiful relationship with a Gemini female.  This simply means that in astrological terms, you will have more work to do as a couple than you would have if with an earth or water sign. 

Gemini women are creative, unconventional, free-spirited, adventurous, clever, witty, adaptable and imaginative.  On the downside, they are superficial, impulsive, restless and indecisive.  They are also very independent and can't be held down by anyone.  They are addicted to constant change and their freedom.

A Virgo-Gemini couple is usually unconventional.  You and your lady approach the world very differently.  You are more reserved, shy, private, while she is more social, changeable, and restless. In order for this combination to work out long-term, you will have to recognize your differences and accept each of your natures. 

Stay clear from your tendency to over think or over analyze this situation, since you are still young and have a great deal of experiences ahead of you.  Make the most of your relationship and look at it as an opportunity for personal and emotional growth.

Thank you for writing in,

Yael