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Taurus with Taurus

Most signs gravitate towards their own in order to develop themselves

Dear Yael,

I am a Taurus woman, and from what I understand, I am most compatible with fellow Earth and also Water signs. I have read that I am least compatible with Air and Fire signs. Is that true?

I would like your feedback on this for validation! Also, some people have said that you should never be in a relationship with your same sign, but I feel that is inaccurate. I have had the most compatible relationships (I felt that each of them were potential soul-mates) with two Taurus men (at different times of course in the past). I was wondering about your thoughts on that issue. I would greatly appreciate your feedback about these two things plus anything else with your knowledge about Taurus and their compatibility with other signs! Thanks so much!

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Miss Taurus

Hello Miss Taurus,

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It is true that you are most compatible with Earth (Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn) and Water (Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces) signs. You are least compatible with Fire (Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius) and Air (Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius) signs. 

Regarding your question as to whether or not you should be with a fellow Taurus, I have noticed a few trends since I always ask people their signs as well as their first loves. 

Usually people surround themselves at an early stage with their own sign, romantically and platonically for a simple reason I believe.  As one matures, he/she gravitates towards new experiences and something that is less familiar. 

That is not to say that a person who is with the same sign is not emotionally mature, they may simply enjoy being with someone who has their own energy.  On the other hand, each of the signs expresses its traits differently in a male and female form.  Men and women of the same sign can be very different.  I find that one of the only signs that can actively be with itself is Virgo, simply because both Virgo men and women are extremely critical and have a hard time co-existing for long periods of time with other signs. 

You may have been with Taurus men in your youth, which would not surprise me at all.  Most signs gravitate towards their own in order to develop themselves, however, for a long-term relationship such as marriage, you would best advised to steer away from your own. 

To truly evaluate your situation, I would need more details regarding your time, birth place, etc., but this is the basic framework from which to operate.  In astrology, it’s known that being with the same sign (Taurus) or your opposite sign (Scorpio) produces a neutral effect.  Thus, this is neither good nor bad, but if you are looking for a positive and evolving relationship, I suggest in this order:  Capricorn, Virgo, Cancer, Pisces, and then Scorpio or Taurus.  Good luck!

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