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Sagittarius and Scorpio

A new life in divorce for a Sagittarius woman.

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Dear Yael,

I am a recently divorced Sagittarius woman, born in late November.  I was married to a Scorpio for 23 years, who is born in mid-November.  After mothering not only my ex-husband and two children, I am more aware of what I want in a relationship.  I don't want to repeat the same pattern of giving too much to another man without being appreciated.  What astrological signs would reciprocate, so that I can have an equally-giving marriage the next time around? 

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Thank you,
Miss Sagittarius 

Dear Miss Sagittarius,

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I am sorry to hear about your divorce. However, the best has yet to come. 

While time after time I see relationships between astrologically incompatible individuals work out, the same holds true for the opposite.  Traditional relationships are becoming fewer in our day, and people are having a harder time finding "true love".  

You are in a new phase of your life, and your independent nature is finally liberated.  Sagittarius women are some of the most independent, forward-thinking, philosophical, courageous and adventurous women of the zodiac.  They have an amazing ability to forgive, which is partially due to the fact that they would rather move on to the next project or task than hold on to a grudge.  They are natural teachers, humanitarians, and powerful thinkers. 

They are also driven  by their ideals and will fight for their beliefs until the very end.  Most Sagittarius natives are restless and extremely generous with themselves and material possessions, since they place little to no value on such things.  They are not hoarders by any means.  They have elegant taste and will invest in a good luggage (which will most likely not be in attic or garage but nearby so they can prepare for their next voyage). 

As lovers, they are fiery, intense, and have amazing sex appeal.  Now to your question.  You are most advised to stay away from needy and manipulative types such as your ex-husband.  In your case, you need a man who is stronger than you, or you will risk your happiness and losing respect for him as well. 

Stay away from all earth and water signs such as Capricorn (too controlling), Pisces (too emotional), Taurus (too confining), Cancer (too needy), Virgo (too critical), and Scorpio (too manipulative and deceiving). 

Your best matches are fire (Aries and Leo) and air (Aquarius, Gemini, and Libra) signs. If you are looking for an equal partnership, Gemini, Libra, or Leo are your best, although Leos do like the spotlight.  Gemini men will neither bore nor confine you.  Libras will wine and dine you.  Good luck!

Yael

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