Are Sagittarius and Leo Always a Good Match?

Hi Yael,

I am an 18 year-old female.  I was born on December 11, 1992 at 1:21 AM in Tampa, Florida.  I was dating a guy born on July 27th, 1992.  I read some articles about horoscopes and this was supposedly a good match.  However, we are no longer dating anymore and are just good friends.  Right now, I am casually dating another guy who was born on July 28, 1989.  I am not sure of either of their exact birth times.  Since their birthdates are so close, will this relationship fail as well or does it just depend on the person, or people, involved?

Sincerely,

Confused yet Curious Female

Advice Seeker's Chart:  Ascendant Libra, Sun Sagittarius, Moon Cancer, Mercury Scorpio, Venus Aquarius, Mars Cancer, and Jupiter Libra.

The Ascendant describes your outward appearance, behavior, and mannerisms.  The Sun reflects your core personality and the qualities of your ego.  The Moon governs needs, emotions, moods, and habits; Mars rules defense mechanisms and thought processes; Mercury governs communication; Venus rules the world of love, pleasure, and desires; and Jupiter is the career.

Dear Confused yet Curious Female,

Normally, a Sagittarius female and Leo male is an excellent match.  However, so many other things are at play when you are looking for the one that this alone will not guarantee a happy union.  Astrologically speaking, Sagittarius women are best paired with Aries, Leo, Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius. 

Even though both of the gentlemen you mentioned are Leos, this does not imply that they are the same in relation to you.  Even people who are born on the same day of the same year will have their differences as well as their similarities.  As far as you making a yes or no decision based on this small detail, let this go and look at the individual you are presently with.  To ease your concerns, firstly, their charts are very different since they are born three years and a day apart.  Secondly, since the exact hour of the individual’s birth is crucial, you can even imagine that two people born on the exact same day within hours of each other will have their own astrological maps.

Now I would like to take a look at your chart specifically so as to help you in the long run.  A Sagittarius Sun and Cancer Moon combination is not harmonious for a multitude of reasons.  Your impulsiveness coupled with your emotional nature can drive you and others crazy at times.  On the positive side, your Cancer moon enables you to be more sensitive and intuitive than others your age.  You are also very mystical and when in love, you are intense and highly understanding.  Try to harness your emotions a bit more.    

Your Libra Ascendant and Venus in the fifth house makes you courteous, kind, affectionate, emotionally driven, intuitive, restless, easy going, and socially oriented.  Since you are driven by human relationship, this sometimes makes you too attached and over dependent.  Stay clear of getting too involved in the lives of others and focus more on your own needs.

A Venus in the fifth house denotes a life full of romance, happiness, and success in the love arena.  Since you are so fortunate in romance and have many admirers I must add, you should stay clear of your changeable tendencies in love.  Focus more on quality than quantity.  Although you are capable of loving deeply, if you are not satisfied on all levels, your tendency is to lose interest after a certain time. 

Finally, I would like to add that the choice is up to you.  Don’t settle and keep your eye on the prize. You know yourself well and although you may be writing in for a specific answer, you already know where your heart is.

All the best,

Yael