An Aquarius Woman and Love

Dear Yael,

I’m an Aquarius female who has had a lot of difficulties with love.  I find many men attractive, but the feelings are not reciprocated.  I like educated men, but unfortunately many of the ones I was interested in were exchange students so a real future with them was impossible.  As of now, I’m interested in this one guy, but I’m not sure if he’s available or not. I send him messages, and he doesn’t respond.  I seem to fall for men who are either not available or are uninterested in getting to know me in a romantic way.  I am tired of getting excited again and again and having no results.  What can I do?  What kind of person is good for me?

-Maria

Dear Maria,

I am sorry for the difficulties you are currently experiencing, but I have faith that everything will come together for you.

I usually ask people to send in very specific questions including the hour, place, and date of their birth before giving any real advice. However, since you are asking a general enough question I have some suggestions for you that may help you in the long run. 

Firstly, you need to understand your own nature and then you can make your own assessment as to what you may need and want in a partner. 

Secondly, most Aquarians, both male and female, seek true intellectual freedom.  Their aspirations and needs do not follow the norm, so they usually attract very interesting and somewhat unstable situations and relationships. 

Thirdly, these women are unpredictable, unstable, fixed, rational, firm in their beliefs and convictions, resolute, strong, original, independent, self-motivated, and idealistic.  Many famous politicians, social workers, and NGO organizers are Aquarians.  Aquarius women think outside of the box and live to serve the world at large.  They are drawn to the public field for this very reason and find it difficult to let go of a cause.  In fact they would readily die for their beliefs.    

Some notable Aquarius women: Jennifer Aniston, Zsa Zsa Gabor, Oprah Winfrey, Mia Farrow, Nastassja Kinski, Princess Caroline, Geena Davis, Jayne Seymour,  Sheryl Crow, Paris Hilton, Sarah Palin, and Yoko Ono.

Finally, Aquarius women seek their best friends in their mates.  Unfortunately, since they are firstly concerned with the world at large, they can’t tolerate codependent and needy partners.  They need someone who can fly by their sides or at least allow them to fly solo.  They also need someone who can both intellectually and physically stimulate them.  They are extremely passionate, loyal, and determined in love.

I hope some of this information that I have supplied will help you make better choices in the future.

All the best,

Yael